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Success or failure, I think, quite often happens in our daily life. In one's life, and there must be
some successes and failures, whick make us think a lot. I still remember the story of
Madame Curie, whose life was full of success and failure. Success and failure are brothers.
We all dream of success fall on us and we want to find the way to success. But there is no
denying that failure sometimes comes first. Failure tortures us, teaches us a lesson, builds
our body and purify our soul. Then we know the way to success is full of brambles and other
obstacles. Just as we are climbing a high mountain, we long to get to the top of the mount. It
takes time and it is hard. At last when we have got to the top, we are plunged into a joy of
success, leaving failure down on the way. We suffer a lot all the way when we look down
at our tracks. So we value and cherish success.
The following is an article about successful people.
The winner’s Guide to Success
How do successful people think? What drives them? To find out I interviewed some to the people most successful in motivating others: the nation’s top motivational speakers and best-selling authors of how-to-succeed books. Here are seven keys to succees that they share:
Take full responsibility.
In a society in which people blame everyone from their parents to the government for their failure to get ahead, motivational superstars refuse to buy into the victim mentality. Their credo is “If it’s to be, it’s up to me.”
They realize that when you say someone or something outside of yourself is preventing you from succeeding, you are giving away your power. You’re saying, “You have more control over my life than I do.”
Consider Les Brown. Given up by his parents at birth and labeled “educable mentally retarded” as a child, he had every reason to lose hope. But when a high school teacher told him “Someone else’s opinion of you does not have to become your reality,”Brown realized that his future lay in his own hands. He went on to become an Ohio state legislatior and author, and today earns $20,000 per hour as one of America’s top motivational speakers.
Brown understood that you can’t control things in life such as nature, the past and other people. But you can control you own thoughts and actions. Taking responsibility for your life is one of the most empowering things you can do.
Live life “on purpose.”
Perhaps what most separates motivational supertstars from others is that they live life “on purpose” – they are doing what they believe they were put here to do. “Having a purpose in your life is the most important element of becoming a fully functioning preson,” says Wayne Dyer, author of the best-selling Your Erroneous Zones.
Not living life on purpose consists of expending just enougth effort to get by with the least amount of problems. But when you live your life on purpose,, your main concern is doing the job right. You love what you do – and it shows. People want to do business with you because they sense your commitment.
How do you live your life on purpose? By finding a cause you belive in and creating a business around it. Mike Ferry, once a salesman of audiotape programs, believed Realtors needed help developing sales skills. So he started the mike Ferry Organization, a training company for the real-estate industry. His company has generated more than $20 million a year in sales.
Write out a plan.
Trying to achieve your goals without an action plan is like trying to drive from Los Angeles to Denvert without a map. The wasted time, energy and money will probably cause you to give up long before you reach the Rockies.
Brian Tracy, one of America’s most successful sales trainers, speakers and authors, points out, “Goals that are not in writing are not goals at all. They are merely fantasies.”
With a witten map in hand, however, you’ll enjoythe trip and arrive at your destination in the shortest possible time.
Be willing to pay the price.
Wanting a big house, a luxury car or a million dollars is nice, but the problem is that practically everyone wants these things. Successful people find out what it costs to make their dream come true – then make it happen. They don’t complain about the work it takes.
Les Brown has a callus on his left ear. Why? “When I decided to get into speaking, I had no credentials, no reputation, no credibility and no experience, so I had to call a lot of people,” he explains. “I called over a hundred people a day to ask for an opportunity to speak to their group. This callus is worth several million dollars!”
Become an expert.
One striking factor about the motivational speakers I interviewed is their phenomenal drive to be the best. They’ll do almost anything to improve their skills.
Patricia Fripp, who speaks to Fortune 500 executives on how to become more successful, took a comedy workshop and hired a private speech coach to improve her speaking ability. Fripp did this even after being named one of the most electrifying speakers in North America by a trade magazine.
If someone videotaped you at your job to make a how-to tape for other people, would you be proud of the tape or embarrassed? If the later, decide today to work toward being the best in your field. Study the experts, find out what the best are doing, then do what they do.
Never give up.
It may sound obvious, but when you’re truly committed to your goal, giving up isn’t even an option. You must be willing to do whatever it takes to make it happen.
When Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen compiled Chicken Soup for the soul, they were turned down by more than a hundred publishers. But instead of giving up, they stayed focused on their goal. Eventually, a small outfit decided to publish the book. It not only became a best seller but also hatched an entire series of Chicken Soup books that have sold more than 12 million copies. That’s the power of perseverance.
Spend as much of your day as you can on achieving your goals and dreams, ask yourself, “Is what I’m doing right now bringing me closer to my goal? If not, do something that will.
Don’t delay.
In his book Live Your Dreams, Les Brown recalls talking on the phone with a friend named Marion. The next day she died. Later Brown was helping clean out her office when he came across notes for a play. Unfortunately, it would never be published. Marion was the only one who kenw the ending.
Remember, we don’t have forever. Top achievers know this, but ratherthan seeing it as negative or depressing, they use the knowledge to spur themselves on. They go after what they want – energetically and passionately accomplishing their dreams. You can too.
